The Power of Prayer

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Prayer can be known as an ask of help, an expression of gratitude, or a release of any burden and handing that over to a higher power. I write this post because I took a Twitter poll on my followers’ average prayer life, and found that most people believe theirs is often weak. I know that I struggle with praying to this day, so I can relate. I’m the kind of person that can be too stubborn to accept help of any kind, or I can be too emotional and mentally lazy to delve deep enough to bring my problems to the fore. If you’ve ever felt this before, then I suggest you keep reading. Maybe you’ve never prayed before, or you don’t know how to pray. Maybe you don’t know what to pray for, or maybe you’re scared of asking too much. Even if you feel like your prayer life couldn’t get any better, keep reading. I feel there’s so much to learn about prayers: how to pray, when to pray, how long to pray, and I continue to learn every day. I want to show you my experience with prayer and how powerful it can truly be. Here’s what I’ve learned so far, and I feel in my heart that it’s meant to be shared:

First, I want to show you a few problems I’ve discovered people have while praying:

  1. Not EXPECTING from God: I’ve had people tell me that they are scared to expect from God, or that they are scared of asking too much of Him. That’s actually the exact opposite of what God wants us to do!
  2. Not being specific in prayer: He knows what your heart desires, but He wants to hear it from you. The more specific you are, the more aware you become of the requests you can ask of Him. He WILL give you everything your heart desires, all you have to do is ask. So get down to the specifics of exactly what you want, you won’t be disappointed.
  3. Not always praying out loudWhen you speak to God out loud, your words soon become action. The more you speak it, the more your words become apparent not only to Him, but in your own mind as well. Speak things into existence.
  4. Not trusting God fully. This comes with time, patience and faith. To trust something that you cannot see doesn’t make sense to the human mind. But when we get past what our mind is telling us, your heart will take care of the rest. Praying with uncertainty can hinder your prayer life, and it can place limits on what God can do to break down your barriers. Don’t create limitations in your head, it will block your blessings and favor. Instead, fully believe that you will receive what you’re asking of Him and MORE.

EXPECT your prayers to be answered:

For some of you, this could be a fear of yours–to pray about something, and it doesn’t come true. To pray about something, yet remain unsure that it will be answered. To
really experience the power of prayer, you must pray with power.
Praying without faith is like trying to fly your own plane with no experience. Even though there is a captain that is highly qualified to fly the plane, you only trust yourself to control where the plane is going. On the other hand, you can get on the plane and trust that your captain knows what he’s doing; after all, he is qualified. The point is…when you pray, pray like you know that your prayer will be answered. I recommend that you not only put trust in what has yet to come, but also thank God for answering prayers that have not yet been answered. For example, I pray about my blog daily–that someday my words will positively impact millions of people. I truly have hope and find fulfillment when I help people, so my prayers go something like this:

Less Worry More Faith

 “Thank you God, for granting me the power and influence to positively impact millions of lives someday. You know the desires of my heart. Thank you for answering my prayers, and for never leaving me, nor forsaking me. In Jesus name, Amen.”

I know, asking for millions of people to listen and hear out just one voice in the world may seem a little outrageous. But nothing is too outrageous to Him, the creator of Heaven and Earth. This is in no way a burden to give your dreams, hopes, and desires to a God who can make the impossible…possible.

Be SPECIFIC: ask for anything your heart desires

This prayer can be as little as wishing you’d get a pay raise, or getting down to detail about the qualities of your future spouse. What is your dream job? How much do you want to earn and work for? Ask for that. What kind of spouse do you plan on marrying? What characteristics do they hold? Ask for that. God wants us to be specific. Don’t just pray about what seems logical and possible. Pray HARD about the impossible. God will show you that NOTHING is impossible with Him. He wants us to fulfill our purpose here on Earth before our time in Heaven. If you ask for something and you haven’t received it, it may be that He knows your heart better than you do, or it hasn’t arrived yet because it’s not your time. But know that God is going to answer your prayer, and the more specific you are about your hopes and dreams, the more you can bring them to life. He gave you those dreams you have for a reason. If something is heavy on your heart, it’s meant to be there.

“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” Mark 11:24 

It is never, ever a burden to ask God for anything you possibly need. The answer to your prayer will come out in one of three ways:

  1. God says Yes and gives you what your heart desires
  2. He says No and gives you something better
  3. Or He says Wait, build your faith and your time will come 

Be VULNERABLE: pray with your heart & eyes on God

It’s okay to let down your guard. He wants the whole-hearted and vulnerable you. Screen Shot 2017-11-05 at 10.31.49 PMWhen you pray, pray with your heart and soul. This goes a long way, and you will feel a sense of peace and relief once you do this, I promise. In today’s society, we are taught to hold back our emotions and to never trust easily. In a world like this today, release your built-up anxieties to a God who can move your mountains with one single prayer. Give it a try when you pray next, and fully disclose all of your problems to Him. God asks us to cast our anxiety on Him, so why not give our limitations to a God who has none?

“You will seek me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart” Jeremiah 29:13

TRUST: Be Confident and have Faith

“We must pray with our eyes on God, not on the difficulty.”

Praying in full faith creates a MAJOR breakthrough, but it’s also the most commonly missed concept. It’s even one of the biggest battles I face while praying. We get so focused on the issue at hand, that we so desperately want the problem to go away without seeing why it’s there in the first place. Maybe it was caused by our own choices, or maybe the setback was meant to happen just because there’s a bigger blessing ahead. But say it with me, “His timing. Not mine.” Look to God while you pray, and give Him your doubts, anxieties, fears, and insecurities. Today, let’s declare that there is no more thinking about solving your own problem, because if you have given it to God, He has it under control from here on out. He is working on fixing your hurt, your disappointment, or your frustration. Whatever you do, continue to pray. Don’t quit. In other words, be confident that once you gave your problems to Him, they are no longer your problem.

Here are a few more reminders: 

  • Pray, then let it go. Don’t try to manipulate and force the outcome. Just trust God to open the right doors at the right time.
  • Relying on God has to begin all over again as if nothing has yet been done
  • God’s voice: Stills you, leads you, reassures you, englightens you, encourages you, comforts you, calms you, convicts you.
  • Enemy’s voice: Rushes you, pushes you, frightens you, confuses you, discourages you, worries you, obsesses you, condemns you.

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P.S. Sometimes I don’t know what to pray about, or know how to pray. Below I provided a few prayers for those of you that feel stuck in prayer like I know I have. Feel free to use these prayers whenever you need a little boost:

Prayer for seeking God:

“Dear Heavenly Father, sometimes I have trouble finding the time or desire to seek your presence. Plant in me Lord, the spirit of the seeker of God. Let your Spirit transform me and inspire me to discover you in new ways. Free me from my comfort zone, break down my structure, reign again to my heart. May it be my primary goal, and the glory yours alone. I pray for this in the name of the Most High. In Jesus name, Amen.”

Prayer during uncertainty:

“Dear God, things seem unclear. I’m not sure where I stand, or if the decisions I make are correct. Too many thoughts confuse my head. The enemy brings uncertainty and fear to my heart. Stand up for my, Lord. Cast away the darkness. Show me your will. Bring me clarity and peace. Even if I can’t, I know The One who does. Let Your spirit, Lord, bring me certainty. The certainty that you will never leave me, you will always lead me, and that I belong to You. In Jesus name, Amen.”

Prayer for release:

“Heavenly Father, I release to You the burdens that I have been carrying, the burdens that You never intended for me to carry. I cast all my cares upon You—all my worries, all my fears. You have told me not to be anxious about anything, but rather to bring everything to You in prayer with thankfulness. Quiet my anxious heart. I THANK YOU for Your promise to sustain me, preserve me, and guard all that I have entrusted to Your keeping. Protect my heart and mind with Your peace, the peace that passes all understanding. Father, may Your will be done in my life, in Your time, and in Your way. In Jesus name, Amen.”


Please let me know if this post had a positive impact on your prayer life, or if there’s anything else you would like to know about how you can advance your prayers and relationship with God!


With Love,


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